My Experiences on how Us Men can Hurt Ladies

If he sounds too good to be true, Most likely he is…………
From a very young man who has played, been played, hurt and gotten hurt by many girls. My experiences….. if you don't agree or have something negative to say keep it to yourself. But haters will hate n talk regardless.^_^

We will lie to you (there are ladies who lie too, but that’s another blog), we will tell u you’re rare and one of a kind. You will hear that you are the most beautiful and most gorgeous girl every chance we get. We once a guy gets that popular "aw.......you’re so sweet" from you, we are in. Mind games are starting already. It’s a game, and every1 plays games so they don’t get bored. That's the 1st sign ladies.

2nd, sign, BOYS will try to relate to u so fast (ex. Oh I do that too), Trying to have shit in common that u question. If u still fall for that, WOW. One thing I know you all have noticed is we don't give out much info about ourselves. Care to know why we do this?........LOL. The most obvious reason, so it can’t come back n fuck us up when we leave u. We don’t want u giving out personal info to our next girls or having you talk to our friends and embarrassing us, etc. You leave him with texts, emails, etc. full of info about you and fucking your name up. (If we can’t have you, NO1 will!!!!) Scare u yet? Haha. TO AVOID THIS>>>>>>>you ask all the questions b4 he does; this gives u more facts about him if he tries something. And ALWAYS repeat the questions. If u catch him in one lie, he will lie more. LEAVE THEN AND THERE or suffer. Guys (even the bums.lol) for the most part TRY to think a few steps ahead. Think of the next guy you flirt with as an opponent you play in chess. ALWAYS play 4-5 steps ahead of him, protect your king (heart). ^_^ Getting good yet?......lol.

3rd, we will force and manipulate u into what every girl thinks is that perfect fairytale "love”. We will tell u what u want to hear, we will give you the feeling that nothing will go wrong. That “our love will last forever” then you say…”awwwww”. We also give tests here n there to see how much control we can get and how easy we can get u back if u catch us fucking up (lies, cheating, etc.) Scenario: Ever had lil petty, dumb ass, non relevant arguments for a day or two, and then we come back saying YOU’RE right? Reason that happens is WE know, GIRLS LOVE BEING RIGHT and if u disagree with that, THEN I’ve proved my point. When you’re right, u forget and u become satisfied. You’re still a little hurt but we play on that u “won” the argument. That’s us trying to gain control over u. END IT THERE
NOW, on the subject of “love” comes sex. If you and a guy are talking and mess around all the time and u aint together because he isnt ready, or some other reasons keep coming up; your're getting played. He only wants u because you're a "reliable" source. Virgins are always a "bonus" for us. We want to be the 1st and when we are, we will hold the girl till we find another or till you cant be accessed for "convenience" anymore. Guys love control and love being the teacher. Now, I know a few of u reading this got the hit it and quit it treatment. Popular scenarios: Heard I love you, “MADE LOVE” and then got left with no explanation. Either that happened or this did; an arguments start for no reason a few days after that 1st time, you get the blame for whatever the reason is and then he leaves. Once we leave, we are onto the next, if we come back, we are definitely cheating. TO AVOID THIS>>>>>>>NEVER get with some1 just because you think they are "cute", no1 is too cute. Never show you’re full side or give too much info. I know you’re thinking “oh that’s “fake” of me". NO, it’s protecting yourself and you’re personal info. HUGE difference. Don’t always tell us about how you’re last hurt you, why you’re sad today and the next day. We see that as weakness, we prey on that kind of info, once we know how to hurt u, You’re done for. We will think we know u and pull strings like a puppet.

We will always try separating ourselves from other guys. We will say BULLSHIT like "he didn't know what he had" & "u don’t need him" We play on that, no girl wants the same guy on the same bs. U have a GREAT guy when he says WE instead of THEM. He acknowledges himself and proves he is different. There are good guys in the world ladies.



(THIS BLOG ISNT DONE IT WILL BE UPDATED FROM HERE ON. PLEASE USE THIS, GET INFORMED AND STRONGER, TELL YO FRIENDS TO READ IT ALSO. I HAVE A HANDFUL OF SISTERS AND SO MANY FRIENDS GETTING HURT. ITS HEART BREAKING FOR A REAL GUY TO SEE IT GO ON)

YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH.
~Dragos

About Me

The Life I Live:
1) Believe 1/2 of what You See & None of what You Hear.

2) As Far As We Know, We Only Have 1 Life. Live It To The Fullest & Go For The Best.

3) Better To Get Hurt By The Truth, Than Comforted With A Lie.

I'm 18yrs young. I'm Jamaican, native am, Chinese & Irish. I like to party, go to movies, drive fast, listen to all kinds of music, and all that other fun stuff. I love road trips, going back to the islands, & I'm very adventurous. I'm laid back, love to chill, & love to spend $ like we all do. I really enjoy making others happy who show me respect. I’m not one to talk about myself, that’s just the way I grew up. So if u want to know more drop me a line or two. I feel that too many people aren’t heard so I choose to listen & give them opportunities instead of going on about myself. If you like to play games other than on your TV or in the arcade, DO NOT bring it to me, or I’ll use my creative imagination to have some fun with you. ;) I'm not here for that. It’s not a hobby of mine but I can play them very well (DON'T CHALLENGE THE KING OF GAMES). I am however here to further myself and to give those who never had opportunities given to them a chance to become successful. If u want to know more or have any questions, hit me up.
~Dragos